I'm not always right, but I'm always close. Close Counts.
Sunday, October 16, 2011
Don't Tell Me "It Could Be Worse"
I know. I understand. I get your point. To a
degree, anyway. But seriously, lay off. When somebody’s down, sad,
depressed, hurting, however you want to word it, it’s really no comfort
to remind them how much worse off they could be. When you do that,
you’re not comforting - you’re diminishing. You’re telling them they
don’t have the right to how they feel. And that’s not right. You have no
idea how much they’re being impacted at the moment. And whatever it is
that’s bothering them may seem trivial to you, but obviously it’s not a
small matter to them.
I’m not saying to have pity, necessarily. But don’t condescend, either.
Just because there are people with broken legs and soldiers who have
lost their legs to wounds, doesn’t mean a sprained ankle hurts any less.